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Forward Thinking analogy examples

by adasd
(asdasdasdasdasdas)

Forward Thinking analogy examples

Driving you car forward looking in the rear view mirror.

A major hindrance to succeeding in your personal life or relationships is trying to go forward looking in the rear view mirror. Try driving your car sometime like that. Get on a open stretch of road with nobody on it and try driving only looking in the rear view mirror. It’s kind of exciting and you can actually move forward. On a good straight away you can even pick up some speed, maybe 20 or 30 miles per/hour but as soon as you come to some obstacles, a turn in the road you are going to go off the road and crash. It is guaranteed to happen because you can not see what’s coming up in the rear view mirror. You can’t properly deal with the future obstacles from past events.

The deception is that the road continues to look straight through the mirror, the rocks and hills have gone by and you think that your on the way but the truth is your not, your heading for disaster, maybe a cliff and your cruising right along.

That is life, and especially relationships. Nothing is straight forward, their will always be bumps and curves, rocks and hills, narrow bridges, steep cliffs and oncoming traffic that will require are attention. One of the problems is attention is all that most people give. I am saying that’s not enough. You will not be satisfied with just being aware of the obstacles. It requires more than our attention.

It will require us to look forward as far as we can and choose a destination that will serve us well. It is called setting a goal. The really deceptive part of trying to go forward looking through the rear view mirror is that we feel like we are getting somewhere. The truth is we are just not making significant enough progress to complete a journey. The bottom line is you will never get there but you will be on the road which can easily fool you that things are okay.

All of those bumps, curves, hills, rocks and oncoming traffic are the insecurities, emotional wounds that have not been healed, fears, dysfunction's of life skills and lack of commitment toward your decisions will take all of your skill and quite possibly the skills of others but the one definite thing that only you can do is decide what you want. Get clear on your goals and learn how to set them properly.


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